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Assalammualaikum geng.
Today marks a week since all my final results came out. Tbh, not so proud of it actually. I took a total of 7 subjects last semester, and sat for 6 subjects for finals. 

I have never felt so confident for an exam and I actually had a REAL HIGH expectation on myself for this one. One of the biggest factor for that is actually because of my loan. I really wanted to convert that loan into scholarship so I don't have to pay anything, and the only way to do that is by getting CGPA more than 3.75, which I am no where near as of the previous sem. My aim was to get at least a 3.75 GPA to increase that CGPA of mine.

Now, hear me out. There are subjects where I don't think I did as well for my carry marks BUT I did try my best for finals, so those are what I expected an A- at worst. Let's just say, I trusted my lecturers to be kind enough lol.

All my subjects were not keyed-in at once so we waited day by day for the lecturers to do so. Before the last subject keyed-in, I've been getting As and an A- sooo I was praying hard this one lecturer would do me good...

Of course, this wouldn't have been a story if he did. He didn't.

Behold, my result for this one last subject known as the curse of Linear Algebra and its demonic Numerical Methods... he gave me a C. Not just any C though, a C freaking minussss. That is enough for me to retake my paper bruh. Wth?!

Like can you imagine, all my subjects were so close to a 4 flat and he gave me a wuut /shock

I was so damn pissed. At him. I know I should be blaming myself but I don't think this is entirely my fault. I came to most of his class (walau tak paham skali pun), did all his tasks (walau tak betul skali pun), tried doing well for his lab test (walau soalan pun tak paham skali pun), point is I TRIED MY BEST IN WHATEVER HE ASKED FOR. I am not that stupid to not do revision at all. This whole sem I tried so hard understanding the material even though his teachings didn't make sense to me. Ugh. He could've at least considered that.

But this lecturer memang known for his 'kindness' so as expected, MANY didn't score. However, there is a friend of mine who got a B- and his 'efforts' wouldn't even be considered as one. Just be aware that you can't depend on only your studies to score this subject. This lecturer just wanna see you cheat is all I can say. Imagine 90% (if not all), don't even understand his materials so how can some be better than the rest? Effort? Don't kid me. 

My other friend who always went up to see him during office hours and asking numerous questions, always doing drills for his subject and what did she get with all her efforts?? Same as me. 

I will never get him. He is just too difficult to handle. He should at least consider changing his teaching style... seriously.

After much consideration whether or not I should repeat this subject to fix my pointer again, I was convinced that I shouldn't. I should because a different lecturer might boost up my grade that will lead to a higher CPGA, C- is probably a chance for me to take the risk. However I shouldn't because, next sem I'd be taking MUET and focusing on other tougher subjects might be a better risk. Plus, my mum told me to do so lol. Would getting a 4 flat be achievable though? Well, RIP me.


"Jangan terlalu bangga dengan pengakhiran kita.
Lihatlah perjalanan sebelum kejayaan.
Cara untuk kita mendapatkan sesuatu adalah lebih penting.
Tak perlu bandingkan dengan sesiapa, kerana ia tak adil.

Bagaimana untuk kita menentukan siapa lebih hebat, jika kita hanya melihat pada hasilnya.
Kerana titik permulaannya pun tak sama.
Sihat, sakit, kaya, miskin, ataupun tak punya apa-apa.
Semua bermula dengan berbeza,
Tak mungkin berakhir dengan hasil yang sama.
Pandanglah cara bukan hasilnya." 
- Aqil Shariff, Log-in Diri


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Assalammualaikum geng.
Lemme share a short and stupid story.

Basically, I wanna check my money balance in my online banking account at like 6.30am but sadly, tried few times and the password was wrong. I thought I was just gonna kept on trying with the same password I had in mind... but then, my ID got blocked. Haih.

What to do? Thank God the call centre is available 24/7. So I called them up to tell them my logging in crisis. If you've never called banks before for any checking and what not, you might never know the amount of verification questions they ask. Is2g belambak diorang tanya. Kalah interview nak kerja tau. As usual (and expected) the officer behind the phone, did his questioning and it all went ok until he asked me my bank balance.

Fyi, this account is used for my school loan and that means my balance is like 4-digits so mmg tak ingat hapak la. Seriously, tak ingat digit depan pun time tu hahah. Then I told him la that I can't remember, he changed his question to 'what is my last transaction'. I was not so sure so I told him, "Rasanya transfer RM300 tak silap".

Here's the crucial part of the story. It sounded to me like he scoffed. In other words, he laughed at smtg. But then I thought why would he? So I'm like nvm.

We settled things off when he said he unblocked me and that I can retry my password with only 2 attempts and if I can't remember that I should bla bla (tak register in my brain sbb dah ingat password lama lol).

After I logged-in and check my balance all, I saw what I wrote while transferring the RM300.


"Survive til May"

SURVIVE TIL MAY, DEAR AMELYNN. And what month is it?? Not even a month after that transaction happen and I dah kering. No wonder he laughed. RM300 for 5 months... I'm killing myself huhu. Bye.


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"Comfort; the enemy of progress" 
- P.T Barnum, The Greatest Showman

I think life has been hard only for a reason. We feel tied down. By different opinions, different expectations and different obligations. 

I actually have a confession to make. Remember about the crush I had? Guess it's time for me to move on now. 

But... moving on from a certain feeling towards someone, as you know it, is hard - whether it's like or dislike. So to slap myself from it, I did a lot of recalculation to where my life is heading. My goals and dreams. I am the kind of someone who plans and then would work around my plannings. I might seem to always yolo, but truth is most of the things I have is mostly planned by me. Then the rest of whether it happen or not, are decided by Him. 

For a fact, I planned to take a course in IT. And I've been granted a place in the diploma program at my university. I planned to work at a cafe after SPM. And I landed a job as a barista for 6 months. I planned to get a school loan when I realised uni life costs me a lot. And I got a not-much-but-enough convertible loan from the state's government starting from my 3rd semester. 

See, these are all my plans. Obviously, there's a looot more small things that I wish to have but they don't always come easy. Some may happen by luck, but most time it's always the effort, the prayers, the constant battle to give my best.

Back to the story. I now decided that boys should stop being my focus. However, they will still be in my girl talks and my fangirling moments cos girls will be girls, but I now should tone it down a little bit more. Why? Bcos if according to my plan, I never had the intention to be in a relationship before marriage. Honestly speaking, I do not know when my heart would change on this matter, but this is my current stand as a Muslim who wishes to follow the Islamic way of marriage. It's something I had in mind ever since I had my first (and last) 'couple' experience in standard 6. 

Being in a relationship before marriage is useless. Especially as a Muslim. Bcos you are forbidden to do pretty much everything anyway. Hold hands? Have physical contact? Don't even wish. "Jangan kau dekati zina", remember? Going out on a date with a guy also needs a wali, by right. So yeah properly speaking, it's useless.

Now what I had in mind is that... 25. 25 years old. That will be the year I will try and settle down. I will roughly graduate bachelor's degree at the age of 23 then I'm gonna move out. I'm planning to rent a studio apartment for myself and live alone while getting a job. This phase will be where my adulting skills will take place. Paying my own bill, rent, groceries, do my own cleaning, washing, cooking and tryna survive life and go far from my comfort zone. I need to become good at this bcos once I get married, starting a family will not be any easier. Now every time I think of marriage, tbh I don't deserve it. Not at the moment at least. Apa je I boleh buat bila nak kena layan suami, sedangkan diri pun tak terurus. 

I was told that this will be what everybody would want to happen, but reality check and none of this takes place bcos once you live alone, it's less likely you gonna cook. Life is gonna be same as it were in uni basically. Hidup bujang la kan. But psft, not gonna look at anyone else. If this is meant to go as planned, then insyaAllah let Him decide the rest. 


Yeah. Pretty much my thoughts right now. In conclusion, I nak move on so pls lend me your prayers. K thanks bye.

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